They tell us that it is a piece of cake. We walk into a bar or a party and have a good time. Meet a few people, mingle and maybe make a new friend. Easy! Nothing to it, right?
Unfortunately, as we all know, it isn’t easy for a lot of people. Most of us are shy. We haven’t been trained in the arts of conversation. Our generation is no longer as competent in the social arena. So when we see someone that you really want to get to know, you lose the opporunity cause you can’t even get their attention.
The good news is there is now a school that will try to help you get the hang of it. Check out Charisma Arts and see if they can help you get over your discomfort.
Wayne Elise, co-founder of the company says many people have the misconception that they are out to teach guys with no confidence how to chat up women. In truth that is just a side effect. What the school really teaches guys is how to relax and be themselves no matter how unique the environment, how to approach strangers and get people comfortable enough to get a good conversation going.
The school does not give the student canned lines or spiels that they should memorize and use when they go out. Instead, they aim to teach their students how to think naturally around women, react quickly yet speak like a gentleman.
They have a boot camp which is a three day crash course in the art of seducing women (make that charming women). Some people have already taken the “Charm School Boot Camp” with varyingdegrees of success. Check out their website for yourself and see if they have lessons in your area if you are interested.